1972 We would spend the weekend at Dick's apartment and he would tell us that Mark's bedroom was his roommates son's room. He never told us his roommate was Mary. I even said something to Dick about his flowery curtains and bedspread. I told him this did not look like a man's bedroom. He told me some guys like flowery stuff like that. Dick never once told us that he was living with Mary and Mark. He lied to us every single weekend we were at his apartment. Apparently, Mary and Mark would go somewhere for the weekend. It was a shitty thing to do to your kids, instead of telling us the truth.
1973-06 Dick shows up at the house on Hilton with his new family, Mary and Mark, and tells us he is married. We never even met them or heard of then beforehand.
In 1973, Dick picked up our dog Sam and dropped him off somewhere far away because he did not want the dog in the house. Mary told me that. He did the same thing to Mary's dog "Buttons" at Tappan Lake. He dropped that dog off in the woods. I just remember being in the car when we found the dog and us kids were crying. He was bitching at Mary saying you are getting rid of that dog when we get home.
1976-1978 Dick called me fat kid. He made 'fat kid' my CB handle. I was not fat. I had gained weight because I was depressed because I was being bullied and made fun of for being gay. That asshole did not care. He would go on to make inappropriate comments about Lisa's weight multiple times. When Lisa finally lost weight, Dick said to Max, how do you like your new skinny wife.
1982- Dick told me I was jealous of him because he had Mary and I wanted her. I told him, you do not know how far from the truth that is. But he insisted that I wanted her. LOL. I did not want her, I was gay, and Dick did not even know. Dumbass.
1983 Dick took my car because Brian took my car to fix it and did not have a driver's license because he had a DUI. Dick accused me of knowing that Brian did not have a driver's license. Dick told me to park my car and in his driveway that night. I told him no because I needed to go to work. Dick and Mary showed up with a sheriff to take my car. They had no evidence and did not even have the title. The sheriff made me hand over my keys. After 2 weeks, dick called me and told me I could come get my car. And that we did not need to transfer the title because all it said was Richard Kennedy. Dick did this just so he could be the man. Would not listen to reason. Never apologized to me about it.
1984- Dick would not let me take Benji to the house on Hilton when I move back in with Mom. I had to give Benji to a friend of my grandma’s. I was so heartbroken, but he care because he was such an ass hole!
1985 Mary packed up some stuff and took $10,000 out of their bank account and left Dick. Dick invited me over one night and asked me what I thought about Mary. I told him all the shitty things she did to us kids growing up. Dick said he had no idea. When Dick reconciled with Mary, he called me to tell me she was coming back. I asked him, what about all the shitty things I told you she did. Dick told me my stories did not jive with Mary's after I told him everything she used to do to us kids. So, I said, you are basically calling me a liar. Dick said no, your stories just do not jive with what Mary told me. I told Dick to go fuck himself. I did not talk to him for 2 years and did not talk to Mary for 9 years. All the time that Mary was gone Dick was fucking around with Mom and leading her on and then pushing her aside to go back to Mary. Dick told Mom not to say anything to Mary about what had happened between them.
1987- when I finally started talking to Dick again after 2 years, he asked me if I said hi to Mary. I told him no and I was not going to talk to her. And I said we need to talk about what Paula and Lisa told you about me being gay. Dick said to me that he was really disappointed but I guess I will have to get over it. For years after that he kept trying to get me to get involved with a woman so I could have a baby. Just so I could carry on his fucking name. I told him there was Brian. He did not give up. Mary once told me you should hear what your Dick really thinks about you being gay. At the time I thought maybe she was just saying shit to stir up trouble. But I have seen some of his homophobic Facebook posts.
2003-He made us put up with Mary for 30 years. He could have gotten rid of her in 1985 when I told him about all the horrible things she did to us as kids. But he did not believe me. So, he got what he deserved when she divorced him in 2003!
2003-2004 Dick was dating my friend Linda. One evening he showed up at a restaurant with Lisa and Max with another woman. Lisa and Max did not say a fucking word to him when they both knew he was dating Linda. Lisa dropped that bomb on me one Sunday at Mom's house, knowing I would get pissed off. I told her I could not believe, as a Christian, that she would have dinner with a man cheating on his girlfriend. She said she felt uncomfortable and did not know what to do. I called bullshit on that. You tell someone you do not feel comfortable before they even show up. She knew ahead of time that Dick was showing up with another woman.
When Dick brought Lynn to my house. He was showing her the house and then told her I made all the curtain. Dick said, don't they look nice? Lynn said, they are okay if you like that sort of thing. What a CUNT!
2011-02 Dick asked me if I had any GM points since I was not going to be buying a car anytime soon after my accident. I gave him 3,500 points which was $3,500 off his brand-new truck
2011-06 After my benefit we were eating at the Son's and we got up on stage and we were going to draw the name of the winner of the flat screen TV. Dick put lying Lynn's name on top and told me to pick her as the winner. He told me he wrote Lynn Becker so no one would know that they used her maiden name. I told him I would not do it because that was not fair and mixed all the drawings up. He wanted me to cheat so they could win the TV. He was so pissed at me.
